Fifty-nine, looking down the barrel of sixty

By |2026-05-29T16:56:50+01:00May 29th, 2026|Categories: Midlife, Project Happier, Relationships|Tags: , , |

I was fifty-nine last week. Not sixty yet... not for another year... but fifty-nine feels portentous. It's the year before the year which in a way turns it into the dress rehearsal. Some of you will have seen from Instagram that I was chatting to somebody recently who was dreading her forthcoming 60th birthday so much that she couldn’t even speak the word. She’s banned all family and friends from mentions of it and celebrations – her sixtieth is [...]

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The life-changing magic of pans – an odd story!

By |2026-05-20T14:39:29+01:00January 23rd, 2026|Categories: Midlife, Relationships, Stories|Tags: , |

I knew I was going to be flat out at the end of January. I have our first Midlifechic Retreat at the end of next week to prepare for and life on the work front is busy for this time of year which is strange... but then the world is a strange place right now isn't it? However foresight can be a wonderful thing and I found a note in my blogging diary for this week that said "pans [...]

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The gentle midlife highs of 2025

By |2026-01-20T14:15:19+00:00January 16th, 2026|Categories: Midlife, Project Happier, Travel|Tags: , , , |

Following from last week's recap of the downs this is a nicer post to write because as promised, it's all about the gentle midlife highs of 2025. When I look back there weren't as many big moments as there have been in other years but that's not a bad thing. I'm at the stage where I'm very happy to travel through life on what's perhaps more of a gentle log flume than a roller coaster. And as I read [...]

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Looking back at 2025 – Part One

By |2026-01-09T17:21:45+00:00January 9th, 2026|Categories: Christmas, Family, Midlife, Project Happier, Relationships|Tags: , , , , |

Well hello and a very Happy New Year to you. Cold isn't it? I hope you're emerging from a lovely, restful break ready for a shiny new beginning. I'm going to be looking back at 2025 today as well as wrapping up Christmas. We had exactly the time I hoped for, it was low key and relaxed, we immersed ourselves in happy times with family and friends and just switched off from the outside world for a couple of [...]

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New Year’s Eve thoughts – and what to wear

By |2026-05-20T14:04:55+01:00December 12th, 2025|Categories: Midlife, Project Happier, Style|Tags: , , , , , , , , |

So how are you getting on? One more week of work to go for most of us... and are you skipping or limping? I'm really looking forward to Christmas but this week has felt like one of those long runs where you hit a wall and getting to the end seems impossible. Extra stuff has just toppled me over - like the heating breaking down and a car needing a new wheel... things that involve lots of phone calls [...]

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Feeling bien dans ma peau

By |2025-10-31T17:31:39+00:00October 31st, 2025|Categories: Midlife, Project Happier, Style|Tags: , , , , , , , |

It's a bit of a different post today. Before we plunge into the busy-ness of Christmas I want to tell you about a special project that I've been working on and the thinking that brought it to life. Its focus is identity - specifically the way a woman's sense of identity changes as she gets older. For some menopause brings a feeling of rebirth while others report a slide into invisibility. Whichever way it is there's almost always a [...]

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Midlife Lately – October 25

By |2026-05-20T14:12:16+01:00October 24th, 2025|Categories: Midlife, Style|Tags: , , , , , , , , |

So it's time for a Midlife Lately - October 25 and as I look through my camera roll I realise it's been quite a while since we've had one because the September catch-up was all about our break in Turkey. I feel as if I have quite a lot to say but also not much. The last two months have been all about family - watching from afar as the eldest handled his first big photoshoot in Miami for [...]

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Your Fulfilment Era – what does the future hold?

By |2025-08-22T21:17:29+01:00August 22nd, 2025|Categories: Midlife, Project Happier|Tags: , , , |

I usually write one of my more thought driven posts at this time of year, generally triggered by a couple of weeks away on holiday with time to think. That hasn't happened this year because we had our big trip to Colombia in February but ever since my May birthday post where we talked about looking back from the perspective of your 80 year-old self, I've been focusing on the new stage of life that a lot of us are [...]

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New friendships – Midlifechic overnighter 2025

By |2025-08-15T16:57:56+01:00August 15th, 2025|Categories: Midlife, Project Happier, Relationships, Travel|Tags: , , , , |

New friendships - Midlifechic overnighter 2025 Today you won't be surprised to hear that I want to talk about our Midlifechic overnighter 2025 in Birmingham last weekend. But before I go into the detail let's zoom out a bit and ask, "what's the point of these get togethers?" As you know I've been tentatively organising meet-ups since November 2019. Each time I try to take them on a step or two, stretching the time together out a little longer and [...]

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As my lastborn graduates…

By |2025-09-01T16:38:52+01:00August 1st, 2025|Categories: Family, Midlife, Project Happier, Relationships, Style, Work life balance|Tags: , , , , , |

This is one of those posts that is all about family and it's where my blog turns personal as a legacy that I hope to pass down. It's a long one and it will hold no interest for some - if that's you, I assure you that normal service will be resumed next week. Others though will understand how the milestones that we reach don't always point ahead, sometimes they cause you to look back along the path that's [...]

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Midlife Lately – July 2025

By |2026-06-06T22:29:37+01:00July 25th, 2025|Categories: Midlife, Style, Travel|Tags: , , , , , , , , |

We've reached the point in the summer where there are no new clothes for us to talk about so it's just going to be me chatting to you about what I've been doing, wearing and thinking over the next few weeks - let's hope I can make it interesting! So it's a midlife lately catch-up today and we're going back to the beginning of July when we went away for a little break. In the space of ten days [...]

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Midlife Lately June 2025 – Part 2

By |2026-06-06T22:29:39+01:00July 4th, 2025|Categories: Midlife, Sale, Style|Tags: , , , , , |

If you read my post on Tuesday you already know that June began as an unexpectedly sad month and yet with 'stop all the clocks' absurdity, life carried on. There were still work deadlines to be met and meetings to go to. The sun shone - or rather it didn't much here - Wordsworth would have some 'pathetic fallacy' context on the fact that we were covered by grey cloud for most of the month. With everything that had been [...]

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Midlife Lately – June 2025 Part 1

By |2026-06-03T20:31:22+01:00July 1st, 2025|Categories: Family, Midlife, Relationships|Tags: , |

[Please note before reading, this post talks about the pain of grief and loss] I know you weren't expecting a post today but as I've started writing my June midlife lately I feel I can only do it in two parts because it's been a very difficult month for people around me. Some of you have picked up that I haven't been my usual self - as I write this blog so openly it's been difficult to know how to [...]

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58th birthday thoughts – a conversation with my future self

By |2026-05-20T14:12:19+01:00May 23rd, 2025|Categories: Midlife, Project Happier|Tags: , , , , , , , |

58th birthday thoughts - birthdays always make you feel reflective don't they? I always think that the time around New Year is a good point for reviewing life as a couple or family and the week around your birthday is a bit more personal, an opportunity to work out how things are going for you. I was 58 on Monday and a new decade is just starting to shimmer on a still faraway horizon. It feels a bit like [...]

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Visible signs of ageing – can they be tackled?

By |2025-04-25T16:57:50+01:00April 25th, 2025|Categories: Hair & Beauty, Midlife, Product review|Tags: , , , , |

I don't often talk about the visible signs of ageing on here - as you know I believe we all need to approach our advancing years with a positive mindset. By midlife most of us have become increasingly aware of what a privilege it is to grow older. The years of being a 50-something are known as sniper's alley for good reason and if we make it through, complaining about looking as though we've lived feels like the biggest [...]

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Join me for a Midlifechic night away

By |2026-06-03T20:31:20+01:00March 11th, 2025|Categories: Midlife|Tags: , , , |

It feels very exciting to be bringing this to you, I just hope there will be enough of us who'd like to spend an evening together chatting over dinner to give us the numbers we need for our booking. I love our evening get togethers but I always leave feeling I haven't had enough time to talk to everyone properly. And the thing is that we have a rare group here - women who have no agenda other than [...]

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Travel in midlife and onwards – getting the most from it

By |2025-02-07T18:56:54+00:00February 7th, 2025|Categories: Midlife, Project Happier, Travel|Tags: , |

As promised this is my second rather reflective post on the theme of what 2024 taught me. Today though I'm also looking at lessons from the travel experiment that we've been playing around with over the last few years so that I can write this 'travel in midlife and onwards post' properly. Somebody told me this weekend that I think too much, that I should just get on and live life forwards - and even though it was said in [...]

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Reflecting on 2024’s midlife lessons

By |2026-06-03T20:31:43+01:00January 31st, 2025|Categories: Midlife, Project Happier|

This post is late this year I know - it's a whole new month tomorrow. Before I start though I just want to thank you for all of the fabulous book recommendations last week - my Kindle floweth over - and for the enthusiastic response to the survey. As I explained last week I've approached January quite differently this year, I haven't felt my usual need to get everything pinned down. Something's afoot and I suspect I might finally be [...]

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Ways to make the most of 2025

By |2026-06-03T20:31:19+01:00January 10th, 2025|Categories: Midlife, Project Happier|Tags: , , , |

Ways to make the most of 2025 Well hello, how are you feeling as we find ourselves in a bright, crisp new year? And crisp it certainly is - our views out to the snowy Lake District hills are so stunning at the moment that they don't look real. Anyway back to the feeling of a new year. I've caught up with a lot of my favourite people over the last month or so and in my circle the [...]

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Midlife lately – pockets of October joy

By |2026-06-06T22:29:45+01:00November 1st, 2024|Categories: Midlife, Style|Tags: , , , , , , , , |

Another month gone and October always feels like the most transitional month of the year - for me it began on the beach in hot sunshine and ended in full throttle Christmas prep! We'll start thinking about that soon but first let's have a catch-up with a Midlife lately - pockets of October joy. When I came back from holiday I was full of energy so until my back went I did a good job of taking the everyday [...]

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Midlife lately – summer lived to the full

By |2026-06-03T21:22:37+01:00September 13th, 2024|Categories: Midlife, Project Happier, Style|Tags: , , , , , |

From this week's weather it would appear that summer is completely over (9 degrees here!) and I haven't kept my blog up to date with what we've been doing. As you know, these posts are really just for me to look back on in the future so if you come here for the fashion updates, skip over this one, clothes will be back next week. Despite the awful weather, summer 2024 has been one of the least travelled but most [...]

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Midlifechic reader event – save the date

By |2024-08-30T16:51:03+01:00August 30th, 2024|Categories: Midlife|Tags: , , , |

The sun is out in the North! It is! So I can either spend the next few hours writing a blogpost which, given the number of out of office replies I get each time I send one as well as the much lower than usual number of comments, isn't feeling very encouraging at the moment. OR... I can take advantage of the fact that both of my boys are at a loose end this afternoon and are up for [...]

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Another slice of summer midlife lately

By |2026-06-03T21:23:42+01:00August 23rd, 2024|Categories: Midlife, Style|Tags: , , , , , , |

It's another quick catch-up today because I'm immersed in trying to write my book and it feels like time's running out - my Inbox is full of emails about autumn launches and Christmas so my quieter summer period is nearly over. I'm not sure how I'm going to juggle things over the months ahead but for now that's a September problem. So just to keep in touch, here's another slice of summer midlife lately. The weather here has gone [...]

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Summer 24 midlife lately catch-up

By |2026-05-20T14:54:47+01:00August 16th, 2024|Categories: Midlife, Project Happier, Style|Tags: , , , , , |

Continuing with my series of shorter posts, here's a little summer 24 midlife lately catch-up but first I must just thank you profusely for all of the answers you gave to my question last week. I'm busy going through them and I'm so grateful to everyone who's shared so much, please know that even though it's anonymous I still feel honoured to have your confidence. I will try my utmost to pull something good from everything you've told me - [...]

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Asking for more of your helpful thoughts

By |2024-08-30T14:33:32+01:00August 9th, 2024|Categories: Midlife, Project Happier, Relationships, Surveys|Tags: , , , |

Happy Friday! It's just a quick post today because I'm pleased to say that I've actually begun the writing phase of the book and now I find I can't stop. I should have just sat down and started typing ages ago but I've been churning in a state of not feeling qualified to do it. However by beginning with a couple of the chapters that come to me easily, I'm now getting somewhere. There is one area where I [...]

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Midlife relationships & sex – the empty nest

By |2024-07-27T08:24:05+01:00July 26th, 2024|Categories: Family, Midlife, Relationships|Tags: , , , |

Ok, so a couple of weeks ago I promised to write a longer post for people who are approaching the empty nest and wondering what's next for their relationship. I'm also being told that if my book is to be fully representative of midlife onwards it needs to talk intelligently and sensitively about sex because it's such an important part of it all. So I'm practicing on you because I always feels like I'm talking to friends and I [...]

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Questions I’ve been asked recently – midlife cornucopia

By |2026-06-03T21:31:08+01:00July 12th, 2024|Categories: Hair & Beauty, Midlife, Style|Tags: , , , |

It's a quick post today because I'm heading off for a little break as I mentioned last week. The weather's been... well you know... so I don't have any interesting outfits to show you. Instead I thought I'd answer some of the questions I've been asked recently by readers, friends or in interviews I've done. They're a bit random, they cover style, life, books and beauty but hopefully there's something interesting in there for everyone. Questions I've been asked recently [...]

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A journey through the Valencia region and reflections on this midpoint of life

By |2026-06-06T22:29:59+01:00March 22nd, 2024|Categories: Family, Midlife, Style, Travel|Tags: , , , , , |

There are times when you settle into a flight home and wonder if you've even been away. And there are others where you've done so much that you feel as if you've completed an episode in the story of your life. That's how our journey through the Valencia region of Spain was, even though we were only travelling for ten days it felt like a month (in a good way I should add!). In a short time we experienced so [...]

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Midlife – the time for trying out new things

By |2024-02-02T16:58:26+00:00February 2nd, 2024|Categories: Midlife, Project Happier, Travel|Tags: , , , |

We've made it to February my friends and a huge thank you for your enthusiastic response to the meet-up. Mal confiscated my phone on Friday evening to stop me thinking about it so I was over the moon to see that it had sold out on Saturday. For those who've asked, I've managed to add five more places, they've just gone live - link here. I'll move back to the subject of clothes next week but today is another post [...]

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Midlife skincare – the products I buy because they work

By |2026-05-20T14:12:27+01:00January 26th, 2024|Categories: Hair & Beauty, Midlife|Tags: , , , , |

My goodness thank you so much for all of your input after last week's post. If you haven't been back to look at the comments on the tougher aspects of midlife and how to deal with them, do take a few minutes to read through them. They show that we're living through it in a completely different way to the generations before us and so we're having to work things out as we go along - but it's helped me [...]

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Midlife – the rough comes with smooth – how to handle it

By |2024-01-19T12:24:51+00:00January 19th, 2024|Categories: Midlife, Project Happier, Relationships|Tags: , , |

I'm going to carry on addressing some of the issues you shared with me in last October's survey today. For everyone who's asking, I will talk about style and run the retailer spotlights again but not at the moment when the shops are short on inspiration and we're all wrapped up against the snow. So today is all about the difficult parts of midlife that nobody prepares you for - the rough comes with the smooth - and how to [...]

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Midlife lately August – simple summer moments

By |2026-05-20T14:39:37+01:00August 11th, 2023|Categories: Family, Midlife, Relationships, Style|Tags: , , , , , |

What should we talk about today? It can't be clothes because I seem to be living in jumpers and jeans so I think it has to be a midlife lately - August. I know that lots of you are on holiday, as are we usually. In fact this is the first August since 1997 that I haven't been away somewhere or other and it feels strange. We spent May, June and July constantly on the move, mostly for work or [...]

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How it feels to be 56 – birthday thoughts

By |2026-06-03T21:26:22+01:00May 19th, 2023|Categories: Midlife, Project Happier, Relationships|Tags: , , , |

Today I have the great fortune of sharing another birthday post with you - my tenth one in fact. And when I say good fortune I really mean it. I've never been complacent about the sheer blessing of being alive but I'm more aware of it than ever because over the last twelve months we've lost or have worried about losing too many friends and acquaintances of our age to cancer and sudden heart attacks. And of course I also [...]

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Travel and what it’s taught me about ageing well

By |2023-02-24T17:15:40+00:00February 24th, 2023|Categories: Midlife, Project Happier, Relationships, Travel|Tags: , , , |

How strange it is to be back. I'm going to need a bit of time to go through the photos of our trip to Kenya but I'm hoping to talk about the safari element next week. In the meantime, I mentioned on Instagram that it had changed me and quite a few of you asked how - so before the cloak of habit envelops me again, I'm going to try to pin it down with travel and what it's taught [...]

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A reader lunch, a blog birthday and à bientôt…

By |2023-02-01T14:00:53+00:00February 3rd, 2023|Categories: Midlife, Project Happier, Relationships|Tags: , , , |

As you'll know if you follow my Instagram feed, we set off on an adventure this morning (well at least I hope we did because I'm typing this on Wednesday so I'm assuming all will have gone to plan!). It means there won't be another blog post until 24th February but part of the project involves posting Instagram Stories every day so you can catch me there - in the spoken word rather than the written one. And I'm leaving [...]

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Midlife lately – a January catch up

By |2026-06-06T22:33:56+01:00January 27th, 2023|Categories: Midlife, Style, Work life balance|Tags: , , , , , , |

I'm posting early because I have an exciting afternoon ahead - it's our NW reader meet-up and I'm so glad it's here to bring light into January. So how's your month going? Chilly isn't it? I think I'd rather have it this way than just damp and grey though. There's something special about this time of year when the earth seems to be sleeping until you look more closely and see the shoots starting to come through, signs that soon [...]

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4 learnings I’m taking from 2022

By |2023-01-13T19:10:30+00:00January 13th, 2023|Categories: Family, Midlife, Project Happier, Relationships|Tags: , , , , |

Something a bit different today because there's no point in talking about clothes at the moment - we're going to need an Ark up here soon if the rain doesn't stop! Before I start though I just want to thank you for all of the encouraging comments and messages you sent after my Christmas post, they were so heartwarming to read and they helped my year of blogging to end on an especially happy note. So talking about learnings suggests [...]

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Wishing you a cosy Christmas – 2022 over and out!

By |2026-06-06T22:33:59+01:00December 16th, 2022|Categories: Christmas, Midlife, Style|Tags: , , , , , , , , , , |

So here we are with my final post of the year, wishing you a cosy Christmas. I don't know about you but we're limping towards it. We both came back from our week of work travel full of cold and I'm running on a single cylinder so I'm signing off earlier than planned. Before I go though, let's have one last catch-up. I confess photos haven't been on my mind so I've had to scrabble about to put this [...]

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Midlife lately – behind the scenes

By |2026-06-06T22:24:11+01:00December 9th, 2022|Categories: Christmas, Midlife, Style|Tags: , , , , , , , , |

Well I said I'd do a catch-up today and it shows how focused on Christmas prep I've been when I have photos and moments going all the way back to the end of October. As you know, I like this blog to be a reflection of a real midlife and while I've been busy getting everything ready for what will hopefully be a fun-filled Christmas, everyday stuff has been going on - as it always does. November, in particular, was [...]

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Autumn midlife lately – time for a catch-up

By |2026-06-06T22:34:01+01:00October 14th, 2022|Categories: Family, Health, Midlife, Style|Tags: , , , , , , , , , , |

The weeks seem to be flying past at the moment so I thought it was time to take a mid-season pause and have a catch up with an autumn midlife lately. I've found random photos of various moments on our camera rolls so here's what's been going on in the background while I've been talking about travel and new season clothes. Autumn midlife lately - empty nesting Towards the end of September it was finally time for the youngest [...]

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Sandals Resorts for midlifers – a good holiday option?

By |2026-06-06T22:34:03+01:00September 23rd, 2022|Categories: Midlife, Relationships, Style, Travel|Tags: , , , , , |

And so I'm back from the unexpected gift that rounded off what has been a fabulous summer - a trip to St Lucia with the team from Sandals Resorts. When I left you at the end of my last post I was feeling both nervous and excited. I was delighted to have been invited but a bit surprised too because I've always seen Sandals Resorts as a honeymoon destination - so let me tell you how we found it. I [...]

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Getting your confidence back after 50

By |2026-06-06T22:30:48+01:00July 22nd, 2022|Categories: Hair & Beauty, Health, Midlife, Project Happier|Tags: , , , , , , , , |

It's a bit of a different post today. Since the Telegraph article I've had quite a few women get in touch to ask me how I manage to feel confident at this age when it's so easy to feel that everything's in decline. As regular readers know, back in 2014 I'd lost all of my confidence and so I deliberately decided to work on it. At the time I called it 'getting my groove back' and although that sounds cheesy, [...]

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Clothing to combat hot weather & midlife lately

By |2026-06-06T22:34:05+01:00June 17th, 2022|Categories: Family, Midlife, Project Happier, Style|Tags: , , , , , , , , , |

My goodness these weeks roll around quickly when the sun's out don't they? We have a lot going on on the domestic front at the moment and I'll tell you more about that at the end so it's a catch-up post today. I'm going to start with a run through of what I've been doing and wearing, move on to clothing to combat hot weather (I think you need it more desperately in the South than we do up here) [...]

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On growing older contentedly – and bold SS22 looks

By |2026-05-20T14:56:27+01:00April 8th, 2022|Categories: Midlife, Project Happier, Style|Tags: , , , , , , , , , , |

It's a bit of a different post today, it includes clothes (of course) but it's also about growing older contentedly. When I was down in London a couple of weeks ago I met up with Nayna McIntosh from Hope and after we'd looked through the glorious new season pieces that I'll show you in a few minutes, we got chatting about things like the true markers of success as we approach the end of this phase we call midlife. You [...]

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A midlife catch-up – what I’ve been doing and wearing

By |2026-06-06T22:34:08+01:00April 1st, 2022|Categories: Exhibitions, Family, Midlife, Style, Work life balance|Tags: , , , , , , , , , , |

And here we are on 1st April which means we're a quarter of the way through the year already. I'm not bringing you the post about getting older that I was hoping to because I just haven't had time to do it properly. Instead, when I was looking back at my camera roll trying to make sense of the fact that the year's going so quickly I realised that there were lots of photos on there that I haven't even [...]

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Drink spiking – midlife women, it’s happening to us too

By |2026-05-20T14:45:07+01:00January 21st, 2022|Categories: Midlife|Tags: , |

This is not a post that I ever imagined I'd be writing but if you follow my Instagram account you'll know that something pretty unpleasant happened to me last weekend - my drink was spiked. Since I talked about it on there I've been flooded with stories from people who've had similar experiences so even though it's something I really just want to forget, I'm going to write about it in more detail so that you can see just how [...]

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My best winter buys & 2021 over and out!

By |2026-06-06T22:34:11+01:00December 22nd, 2021|Categories: Christmas, Midlife, Sale, Style|Tags: , , , , , , , , |

I can't believe this is the last post of the year - I'm running out of time and there's lots I want to say to you so I'm going to crack on. I'm starting with a quick catch-up of the last few days, then moving on to a round-up of my best winter buys & 2021 over and out! Christmassy days out So let's start over in Newcastle. We had a whirlwind visit to take mum-in-law out for the day [...]

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Midlife ups and downs – and what I’ve been wearing

By |2026-06-03T21:25:28+01:00November 5th, 2021|Categories: Family, Midlife, Relationships, Style|Tags: , , , , , , , , , , , |

After playing catch-up on our Greek trip for the last few weeks it feels good to be talking to you in real time again. We've had lots going on and I'm going to write this post the opposite way round to usual because it has some sadness and I don't want to leave you on a downer on a Friday. So I'm starting with some midlife ups and downs and then I'll move on to happier events and what I've [...]

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The empty nest – how we’re coping with the end of days

By |2021-09-22T17:16:02+01:00September 22nd, 2021|Categories: Family, Midlife, Project Happier, Relationships|Tags: , , , , , |

The end of days And just like that they've flown. After 25 years of family life our nest is empty and it's the moment I've been dreading since my boys first arrived and filled our home with love, mischief and laughter. I distinctly remember holding each one of them for the first time and feeling so many things: joy, awe, responsibility, love... all tinged with an awareness that I was heading on a journey that would be over before I'd [...]

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British City Staycation – Newcastle Part 2

By |2026-06-06T22:31:08+01:00August 20th, 2021|Categories: Midlife, Relationships, Style, Travel|Tags: , , , , , , , , , , , , , |

Happy Friday! Although it already feels like an age ago, today I'm bringing you my British City Staycation - Newcastle Part 2. I left you last week as we were hit with the news of Mum-in-law's diagnosis and everyone in the family was reeling. I'm grateful to all of you who've sent advice and links to the various organisations you recommend. The doctors have told us that the most urgent thing for now is to get the LPAs in [...]

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British City Staycation – Newcastle Part 1

By |2026-06-06T22:34:35+01:00August 13th, 2021|Categories: Family, Midlife, Relationships, Style, Travel|Tags: , , , , , , , , , , , , |

Well hello, it's good to be back and talking to you after our two weeks away. I'm wondering how this post is going to work because a few of you will already have seen the photos on Instagram but of course there was no space on there to give you the full story behind them so I hope it will still be interesting for you. As you know after various holiday cancellations we decided to spend two weeks over at [...]

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Midlifechic Q&A – 20 questions… and 5 more

By |2021-07-23T15:53:56+01:00July 23rd, 2021|Categories: Midlife, Project Happier, Relationships|Tags: , , , |

It's my last post before we go away and so I thought I'd do something a bit different. Several times a year I'm asked by magazines, newspapers or other bloggers to do interviews which isn't usually as grand as it sounds, it means they send me a list of questions to answer and sometimes they publish them, sometimes they don't. It's something I never really have time to do but quite enjoy doing because I find it helps to crystallise [...]

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Cornucopia – new discoveries and midlife lately

By |2026-06-03T21:23:03+01:00July 16th, 2021|Categories: Health, Midlife, Product review, Relationships, Travel|Tags: , , , , , , , |

As we approached summer this year I thought it was going to feel like a long one. Without the rush of a big family holiday to prepare for I imagined it being languid, like the summers you read about in interwar novels where people spent long, limpid days at home in the shade with a book. And of course it isn't turning out that way at all, it still feels as though time's rushing by and weeks are eaten up [...]

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Preparing for the empty nest – our new place is done

By |2026-06-06T22:31:15+01:00June 18th, 2021|Categories: Interiors, Midlife, Project Happier, Retail Review|Tags: , , , , , , , |

And at last, our city apartment is just about finished. All we have left to do is find a few pieces of art for empty spots and update the bathrooms - but that will have to wait until there's no longer a global shortage of sanitary ware or plumbers working to six month waiting lists. As we sat back with a glass of wine on Sunday evening and looked around us, it struck us both that we'd done something we'd [...]

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Birthday thoughts – was lockdown a lost year?

By |2026-06-03T21:25:47+01:00May 18th, 2021|Categories: Family, Midlife, Project Happier, Relationships|Tags: , , , , |

I think it's always worth taking some time to reflect as your birthday approaches and tomorrow I'll be 54 so that's what I'm doing. I'm usually looking back over a busy year of personal achievements peppered with standout moments but this one, of course, has been a little different. It's hard to view the last twelve months with any kind of perspective because even though lockdown's starting to lift, it doesn't quite feel as though this strange time is over [...]

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Cornucopia: style, menopause, hot sauce & books!

By |2026-06-03T21:26:48+01:00May 11th, 2021|Categories: Midlife, Product review, Style|Tags: , , , , , , , , |

Style, menopause, hot sauce & books - how's that for a lead in?! A surprise mini post today because there are a few things I've been meaning to mention and one in particular that I need to flag before Friday. I do like posting on a Tuesday again though - even if it's just a quick 'hello' it helps me to feel as though life's getting back to normal which it is in a way. I had my second jab [...]

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HRT update – going private in the UK

By |2026-06-03T21:26:53+01:00March 5th, 2021|Categories: Health, Midlife|Tags: , , , , , , |

Another week over and it's certainly been an interesting one. In this post I'm finally following up on my promise to do my HRT update - going private in the UK but first I just want to refer back to last week. I think a lot of us are starting to look ahead tentatively, wondering what life is going to be like when we start to emerge from lockdown. Your replies to my question last week about how you were [...]

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How love broke and remade me – a midlife perspective

By |2026-06-06T22:31:29+01:00February 12th, 2021|Categories: Midlife, Project Happier, Relationships|Tags: , , , , |

Well as you may have seen on Instagram, we had a big celebration in our house this week because on Wednesday it was our 20th wedding anniversary. And I know that immediately some of you will do the maths and think but surely the eldest is 24? And you're right. You see there's a story behind our story that I've never told but today feels like the day to do it. It isn't going to be easy to write and [...]

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7 years of Midlifechic – looking back – and ahead

By |2026-06-06T22:31:30+01:00February 5th, 2021|Categories: Midlife, Project Happier, Style|Tags: , , , , , , , |

And here we are in February, a month I like because it takes us swiftly out of winter and into the beginning of spring. It's a month of love in our house because not only do we have Valentine's Day but also our wedding anniversary. First though comes Midlifechic's birthday. Yesterday this little blog of mine reached the grand old age of seven and of course in the context of the lives that we've lived, that doesn't seem very old. [...]

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Goodbye 2020 and hello lockdown 3.0

By |2026-06-03T21:25:32+01:00January 8th, 2021|Categories: Family, Midlife, Project Happier, Relationships|Tags: , , , , , , , , |

Well hello! How are you? I hope your 2020 ended with a Christmas that meant something to you, even if it was a bit different - and that you feel in some way restored. Hitting a new year in a state of extreme lockdown wasn't what any of us were hoping for but we'll get through it together. Today I'm going to do a quick Christmas recap for my memory bank and then I'll share the way that I'm going [...]

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Midlifechic 2020 – over and out

By |2026-05-20T14:30:03+01:00December 18th, 2020|Categories: Christmas, Family, Midlife, Project Happier, Relationships|Tags: , , , |

My last post for 2020 - wow what a year. In fact I almost feel I should leave it at that because what can I say? I don't have enough perspective to review it dispassionately yet but I thought I'd share my immediate reflections here, even if only because one day I hope this will be an interesting sociological record to look back on. So I'm going to do it in my usual way, starting with the downs, moving on [...]

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Midlife lately and what I wore in November

By |2026-06-06T22:31:42+01:00December 4th, 2020|Categories: Christmas, Midlife, Style|Tags: , , , , , , , , , , |

It's been a while since we had a midlife lately catch up because I've been so busy with everything Christmas but it's starting to feel as though most of the planning is done now so I can come up for air. Wasn't November a funny old month? Even more of a nothingness than November usually is so I'm not sure how interesting this post is going to be but I suppose we're all in the same boat. As always, ours [...]

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Midlife lately – catching up after half term

By |2026-06-06T22:31:47+01:00November 3rd, 2020|Categories: Accessories, Christmas, Family, Midlife|Tags: , , , , , , , , |

Hello again - as you probably realised I ended up taking the whole of last week off. Thank you to everyone who sent a little message checking up on me, it showed me that you notice when I'm not here so perhaps I do bring some value with this blog... which is something I often wonder about. Of course we 'should' have been in Paris but as it happened I had a nasty chest infection anyway (not Covid, I did [...]

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Celebrating a 50th birthday in Edinburgh between lockdowns

By |2026-06-06T22:31:50+01:00October 16th, 2020|Categories: Midlife, Project Happier, Relationships, Style, Travel|

I know some of you, the Scots in particular, have been wondering whether I was ever going to publish this. It's two weeks since we went away for Mr MC's birthday and already it feels like a lifetime ago - not just in terms of time but also in lifestyle because now our freedoms are far fewer again. We were so lucky to snatch a weekend of fun when we did and looking through the photos it reminds me that [...]

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AW20 Boden edit – and midlife lately here

By |2026-06-03T19:59:23+01:00October 9th, 2020|Categories: Midlife, Style|

As promised, today's post is an AW20 Boden edit - and by that I mean my pick of the pieces that have arrived over the last couple of weeks. Like me you'll be getting used to the fact that retailers are working around delayed deliveries this season and so quite a lot of product is only available on backorder. However, everything I'm showing you here is available now. As always, I was drawn to some of the stunning dresses that [...]

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How midlifers are feeling as we come out of lockdown

By |2020-06-17T10:49:44+01:00June 16th, 2020|Categories: Midlife, Surveys|Tags: , , , |

Today, as promised, I'm bringing you the answers to the survey questions I asked last week. Thank you so much to everybody who responded so quickly to each survey giving us a hefty sample size of 3,000 overall which means we have a really good insight into how midlifers are feeling as we come out of lockdown. You'll see that I haven't separated out the national and international charts because most answers were very similar which surprised me. I thought [...]

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The zeitgeist and what to wear for the weekend

By |2026-06-06T22:32:07+01:00June 12th, 2020|Categories: Midlife, Relationships, Style|Tags: , , , , , , |

The zeitgeist and what to wear for the weekend Has anyone else found this week to be a tough one? For me it's been by far the most challenging of lockdown, not for any particular reason other than the new monotony. As I've said before I've realised how much I rely on forward goals to keep me going and with the endless uncertainty that seems to surround us in the UK in particular, it's still impossible to implement any. Of [...]

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Cornucopia: midlife matters and the return to ‘normal’

By |2026-06-03T20:06:43+01:00June 2nd, 2020|Categories: Health, Midlife|Tags: , , , , |

And so we find ourselves at the beginning of June - that's more than two full months of lockdown and yet I still find myself circling back to the initial reaction of pure shock every now and then. In other ways though it's become a way of life and there's something comforting about living in a bubble where you don't have the friction of everyday life. It seems as though we're going to have to start emerging soon though and [...]

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Midlife lately and SS20 at home outfit ideas

By |2026-06-06T22:34:58+01:00May 27th, 2020|Categories: Family, Midlife, Style|Tags: , , , , , , , , , |

Hello, I'm out of sync at the moment because I had two days off for my birthday last week and then tunnelled into the Bank Holiday. It means I'm behind with the comments (and everything else) but I'll crack on with them after this. First of all though, a catch-up, starting with midlife lately and then I'll move on to some SS20 at home outfit ideas because a few new drops have landed this week and they'll be the last [...]

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How to celebrate under lockdown – happy birthday to me

By |2026-06-03T21:27:10+01:00May 19th, 2020|Categories: Interiors, Midlife, Project Happier|Tags: , , , , , , |

Well hello... on this day that has always been a beacon in my calendar... because it's my birthday. A friend who graduated to the same age as me last week said she was dreading it this time because all it meant was another year on her age with none of the associated fun. And I admit that I'm less bouncy about it than usual but that's because I haven't been buoyed by our usual festival weekend. I miss having  a [...]

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Pandemic diaries, reflections and new retail drops

By |2026-06-03T20:06:46+01:00April 28th, 2020|Categories: Health, Midlife, Style|Tags: , , , |

Pandemic diaries Hello from a suddenly chilly north of England. Just as I'd got into the swing of summer dressing it's behaved true to form and gone the other way - I've just had to break off to go and put some socks on when I thought I'd finished with them until October. I suppose it reflects everything else that's going on because I'm finding I just can't plan ahead for more than a week at a time at the [...]

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Midlife lately – quarantine days and nights

By |2026-06-06T22:34:59+01:00April 21st, 2020|Categories: Family, Midlife, Project Happier|Tags: , , , , , , , |

Hello everyone, I'm back from my 'week off.' I hope you've all been settling into this new way of living, I thought we'd have a quick Midlife lately quarantine catch up today and then perhaps go on to look at some clothes on Friday. As this spell of good weather continues (she says, touching wood), I'm starting to think about a wardrobe for a summer that is largely, if not completely, going to be spent at home. Before that though [...]

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Lockdown continues – how are you feeling?

By |2026-06-06T22:32:12+01:00April 3rd, 2020|Categories: Health, Midlife, Project Happier|Tags: , , , , |

Lockdown continues - how are you feeling? Hello everyone, I shot myself in the foot a bit on Tuesday with a recap on what we'd been doing so today I thought I'd focus more on how this is feeling instead. Obviously these are just my personal reflections so I'm hoping that in the spirit of social diary, you'll add some of your thoughts in the comments at the end. What I'm keen to log is: as the lockdown continues - [...]

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Coronavirus diaries – lockdown week 1

By |2026-06-06T22:32:15+01:00March 27th, 2020|Categories: Health, Midlife, Project Happier|Tags: , , , , , |

Hello everybody, I hope hope you're all ok out there. We'd never have imagined a week like the one we've just had would we and who knows where we go from here? For now, I'm going to try to keep up with a weekly coronavirus update even if it's just as a kind of social diary to log how this bolt from the blue affected an ordinary family. So here we go - Coronavirus diaries - lockdown week 1. Coronavirus [...]

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Midlife lately – strange coronavirus days

By |2026-06-06T21:42:05+01:00March 20th, 2020|Categories: Midlife, Project Happier|Tags: , , , |

Well hello... hasn't this been the strangest of weeks? I awoke on Monday morning to our usual routine and by Wednesday it had all gone awry. As one of my reasons for writing this blog is to connect with future generations of my family, I'm going to be logging how it feels to live through these strange coronavirus days but it won't all be doom and gloom. I'll be looking for the upsides wherever I can, hoping that Midlifechic can [...]

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A casual midlife lately – winter draws to a close

By |2026-06-06T22:32:31+01:00March 3rd, 2020|Categories: Midlife, Style|Tags: , , , , , , |

A casual midlife lately Hello, it's time for a quick catch up I think with a casual midlife lately. Wasn't February grim? It really seemed to drag, I think everyone in the UK is feeling battered by the weather. We usually go away for our wedding anniversary early in the month and I really missed it - thank goodness it's March. We're surrounded by signs of spring up here - the daffodils are out, there are lambs in the fields [...]

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Chatting through the points you’ve raised

By |2020-02-21T16:45:14+00:00February 21st, 2020|Categories: Midlife, Surveys|Tags: , , , |

Chatting through the points you've raised in the reader survey I've spent some time over the last couple of weeks reading through the really helpful feedback you gave me as part of the reader survey. 3,000 of you answered so I'm still going but I'm noticing that certain questions are coming up quite regularly. So, given that it's been just too wet and windy to take any photos this week (will it ever stop?) I thought we'd spend some time [...]

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What I wear in January, outfit ideas women over 40

By |2026-06-06T22:35:04+01:00January 21st, 2020|Categories: Midlife, Style|Tags: , , , , , , , , |

What I wear in January, outfit ideas women over 40 Today's post is the first of a new series that I'm aiming to include every month featuring a compilation of outfits that I've been wearing for work and weekends. These posts will show you what I wear day in, day out and they should contrast nicely with the new season try-ons that I do with some of our favourite high street brands. I'm not going to patronise you by saying [...]

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Thinking ahead to the end of our lives – let’s discuss

By |2026-06-03T21:23:08+01:00January 14th, 2020|Categories: Midlife, Project Happier|Tags: , |

(Please note that this post focuses on thinking ahead to the end of our lives. If you are ill or recently bereaved, you may find it difficult to read... but I hope not) As you can see, I have a completely different topic for us to discuss today and at first it may not seem easy but actually it's not so bad. I'm supporting the brilliant people behind the charity Marie Curie who are trying to get us thinking ahead [...]

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Hello 2020 – reflections on a midlife decade

By |2020-01-10T15:34:05+00:00January 10th, 2020|Categories: Family, Midlife, Project Happier, Relationships|Tags: , , , |

Well hello and a Happy New Year to you. I'm back to blogging a little later than planned because we had guests until 30th December and then went over to Newcastle for a family funeral so it turned out to be busier than we expected. However everything went well and mum-in-law declared it to be 'the best Christmas for years' - phew! Reflections on a midlife decade Even though it's ten days old now, I feel as though I need [...]

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My best buys of AW 2019 – and thoughts for a midlife Christmas

By |2026-06-06T22:32:34+01:00December 19th, 2019|Categories: Christmas, Midlife|Tags: , , , |

This is it, the last post of 2019. I've been trying to work out what would be most useful to you right now and so in anticipation of the sales starting, I've sifted through what I think are the best buys of AW 2019. They're the hero pieces in my wardrobe and so I've rounded up my personal recommendation of what to look out for from specific retailers' sales. I'll finish with a few thoughts about Christmas because it feels [...]

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When life plays cat and mouse

By |2026-06-03T21:27:34+01:00July 19th, 2019|Categories: Health, Midlife, Project Happier|Tags: , , |

For the last couple of weeks I've been writing two potential versions of this post in my head. You see on an ordinary morning just after we got back from France, I discovered a marble-sized lump in my breast. My immediate reaction was denial. I told myself it was just the edge of a rib but then I asked Mr MC to check and I could see by his face that it wasn't. Just like that life began to spin [...]

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Going grey gracefully – how to approach it

By |2026-06-03T20:07:39+01:00July 2nd, 2019|Categories: Hair & Beauty, Midlife, Style|Tags: , , , , |

As you know, over the last few months I've been starting the journey towards going grey with the team at the Josh Wood Atelier in London. I still have about 50% of my natural blonde and brown in my hair so I won't be completely grey for a few years yet however I'm no longer trying to conceal the transition. Instead I'm allowing the strands of silver to shine though in all of their glory. My first appointment was at [...]

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Cornucopia post: beauty, menopause and midlife musings

By |2026-06-03T20:07:01+01:00June 7th, 2019|Categories: Hair & Beauty, Midlife, Project Happier|Tags: , , , , , |

It's a cornucopia post today and a bit of a long one so you might want to pour that cup of tea / glass of wine before you start. I've been testing a lot of beauty products over the last few months and a few have made my 'must tell readers about...' shelf. So I'll start with those and then move on to menopause followed by a bit of a midlife melting pot. By the end of it there should [...]

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Midlife – making the middle years count

By |2026-06-03T21:24:22+01:00April 23rd, 2019|Categories: Midlife, Project Happier|Tags: , , |

Today's post is a little bit different, I'm taking part in a writing project that was commissioned by the peer to peer lending company Zopa. To celebrate their Innovative Finance ISA, which they say “sits in the middle between low risk, low yielding cash ISAs and volatile, high return stocks and shares ISAs”, they asked a number of people to think about “the middle” and what it means to them. Of course for me, the middle immediately makes me think [...]

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Outfits of the day and more thoughts about mothering

By |2026-06-06T22:32:58+01:00March 29th, 2019|Categories: Family, Midlife, Project Happier, Relationships, Style|Tags: , , , , , |

Well here we are on 'Brexit Day' at the end of what must have been one of the craziest weeks in British history. Our business is feeling the impact. We work with a number of Sci-Tech businesses that are being badly hit by the loss of European funding, the stalling of potential global funding and the inability to get innovations passed in the absence of a governing system. As a result, some people we know are facing the loss of [...]

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Thinking about Mother’s Day and the gifts that you give

By |2019-03-22T12:01:15+00:00March 22nd, 2019|Categories: Family, Gift ideas, Midlife, Relationships|Tags: , , , , , , |

I've been compiling Mother's Day gift posts for as long as I've worked in retail and as always, this year they're everywhere. So when Marks and Spencer approached me to put one together for them, I pushed back. But then they asked me to go beyond the clichés and do it with a difference and after spending some time looking through their site, I felt that I could. So, today I'm thinking about Mother's Day and the gifts that you [...]

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A few thoughts about Christmas 2018

By |2026-06-06T22:35:42+01:00December 21st, 2018|Categories: Christmas, Family, Midlife, Project Happier, Relationships|

Before I start, I have to say thank you to Nicky Keep who sent me a picture of the above jumper when she was shopping in Sainsbury's - I rushed straight out to find one!  It's my last day in the office and I'm hoping to log off for two whole weeks so that means that this is probably the last post of 2018. I haven't really had a chance to look back at the year yet but I feel [...]

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Midlife Lately – what I’ve been doing, wearing and thinking

By |2026-06-06T22:35:45+01:00December 7th, 2018|Categories: Christmas, Family, Midlife, Style, Travel|Tags: , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , |

It's been a while hasn't it and some of you have written in to ask why I haven't been doing Midlife Lately. The thing is that for me, this is not a job. As I've always said, I started Midlifechic primarily as a personal journal so that I could leave a record that my future great grandchildren might read. I was inspired to start writing after reading through boxes of family letters that I discovered after my mum died. For [...]

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Midlife lately and amazing women over 50

By |2026-06-06T22:36:11+01:00October 23rd, 2018|Categories: Midlife, Project Happier, Style|Tags: , , , , , , , , , |

Ok, I promised we'd have a catch up and I have so much to tell you - October has been a blur but let's start where I left you last time, just before the funeral. Newcastle It was, as you can imagine, heartbreaking. When you're inside a family, you never really see the impact that your relative has beyond your immediate enclave until something like this happens. As we arrived at the crematorium, we were overwhelmed by the sheer size [...]

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A week of two halves at Midlifechic

By |2018-10-05T17:12:20+01:00October 5th, 2018|Categories: Family, Interiors, Midlife, Relationships|Tags: , , , , |

Hello, its a post of two halves today because this week has taken an unexpected turn. I'll move onto that later but I want to start by telling you about the dinner party that I mentioned we were hosting last weekend. You see a little while ago I was contacted by a company called La Belle Assiette. I hadn't heard of them before but they're an online chef service. Their website covers most of the UK and it enables you [...]

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New season drops… and more Midlife lately

By |2026-06-03T21:28:01+01:00September 25th, 2018|Categories: Midlife, Relationships, Style|Tags: , , , , |

I do find the new retail calendar weird. Mid-season sales in the third week of September would have been unheard of a few years ago but of course retailers do smaller drops throughout the season now to meet the demand for perpetual newness. So, I have two of these new drops to whizz through with you. They're both from retailers that tend to sell through quickly and in my eyes, these are the best pieces from the latest collections. Hush [...]

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What I’ve been wearing and a midlife lately catch up

By |2026-06-06T22:36:16+01:00September 18th, 2018|Categories: Family, Midlife, Relationships, Style|Tags: , , , , , , , , , |

I thought I'd take a breather from the madness of new season so that we can have a quick catch up. Today I'm bringing you a post of recent outfits, try-ons and a midlife lately catch up which has ended up being more introspective than I intended but that's what happens when I have something on my mind. So, as far as the weather is concerned, we seem to be sliding quickly into Autumn here but every so often, summer [...]

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So long… farewell… auf wiedersehen… for now

By |2018-08-03T13:28:49+01:00August 3rd, 2018|Categories: Midlife, Travel|Tags: , |

So finally we've made it - our long awaited holiday is in sight. I can't tell you how excited I am at the thought of having all of my boys to myself for two whole weeks, I'm going to treasure every minute. The housesitters are briefed and Gary is on his way to Northumberland to stay on a cousin's farm. It's been a hectic week. A while ago, thinking that this would be a quiet time at work, I scheduled [...]

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Midlife and the turning of the generations – plus what I’ve been wearing

By |2026-06-06T22:36:32+01:00June 26th, 2018|Categories: Family, Midlife, Project Happier, Relationships, Style|Tags: , , , , , , |

And so the world of style blogging is hitting its summer lull. As the sales are in full swing and the storybook sunshine goes on, I can feel my mind turning away from its usual fascination with retail towards the things that matter more. I'm very aware that for our family, this will be our last calm summer for a while. We have no important exam results to anticipate and when autumn comes, our status quo will continue with everyone [...]

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City break with teenagers – 4 days in Valencia

By |2026-06-06T22:36:44+01:00June 6th, 2018|Categories: Family, Midlife, Project Happier, Relationships, Style, Travel|Tags: , , , , , , , , , , |

Hello, I'm back. My schedule is still slightly disrupted but it's good to be blogging again. Let me tell you all about our trip to Valencia which turned out to be very simple and very relaxed - just what we all needed. This is one of those posts that is a bit of a personal journal as well as a midlife style blog. As you know, one of the reasons I write is for any future great, great grandchildren of [...]

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The happiest of 51st birthday weekends

By |2026-06-06T22:36:47+01:00May 21st, 2018|Categories: Family, Midlife, Project Happier, Relationships, Style|Tags: , , , , , , |

This morning I am feeling every one of my 51 years which could have something to do with the fact that I decided to party like a 15 year-old in celebration of my 51st birthday. I haven't stopped all weekend and my brain is dead so I'm going to let the pictures do the talking and share a bit of my birthday joy with you. It all started on Friday night when my sister and brother-in-law popped over with presents. [...]

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How it feels to be 50 in 2018, thoughts on midlife

By |2026-06-03T19:52:12+01:00May 18th, 2018|Categories: Midlife, Project Happier, Relationships|Tags: , , , , |

It's my birthday tomorrow which means I've been 50 for a whole year. Like most people I still reel slightly when I have to write my age on a form but other than that, I feel great about it. I've just had one of the best years of my life, not because anything particularly remarkable happened but because everything finally started to make sense. I noticed this new feeling of 'rightness' when I was chatting to my auntie on her [...]

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An update on 2018 spectacle trends and the new range from Kylie

By |2026-06-06T22:36:56+01:00April 22nd, 2018|Categories: Accessories, Midlife, Style, Work life balance|Tags: , , , , , , , , , |

As you know, I've had an ongoing relationship with Specsavers since last summer. They're a brand that I particularly like to support because of all of the quiet behind the scenes work that they do, giving back to both their local communities and the anti-bullying charity Kidscape which I discussed in my post about their fundraising awards. This season they have asked me to look at two of their spectacle ranges in more depth. The Twiggy for Aurora collection which [...]

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Some thoughts about our midlife Valentines

By |2018-02-09T17:07:28+00:00February 9th, 2018|Categories: Midlife, Project Happier, Relationships|Tags: , , , |

It's the time of year when everyone's thoughts turn to love. Whether you like it or not, you are surrounded by hearts and flowers and meal deals for two. I have been endlessly prodded by retailers to create lists of things we should buy to prove to our loves how treasured they are. And as I've been drafting emails in reply, explaining why I'm not running a "50 things to buy your Valentine" post, it's made me think hard about [...]

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How to keep your complexion glowing in midlife

By |2026-06-06T22:37:20+01:00February 6th, 2018|Categories: Hair & Beauty, Health, Midlife, Style|Tags: , , , |

Hello! We're back from our amazing adventure in Transylvania and I have so much to tell you. However today I must crack on and catch up with the work that I've missed so I'm forcing myself to stay away from the photos until I have more time. In the meantime, I have a post about how to keep your complexion glowing in midlife. I've been putting it together since I included this picture a couple of weeks ago and was bombarded [...]

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How to find your purpose at midlife

By |2026-06-03T21:28:21+01:00January 16th, 2018|Categories: Midlife, Project Happier, Work life balance|Tags: , |

How to find your purpose at midlife. It's a different kind of post from me today. You see last week I was shaken by the sudden loss of a friend in the village, someone I have known for a long time. She died within days of returning home from a fantastic holiday with her husband and sons. A brain tumour that had given her no warning also gave her no chance. The whole village has been rocked by it and [...]

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Midlife lately – winter outfits and events

By |2026-06-06T22:37:27+01:00January 9th, 2018|Categories: Christmas, Family, Midlife, Style|Tags: , , , , , , , , |

We have some catching up to do. Forgive me for the fact that this includes Christmas, luckily there aren't many sequins because we did most of our partying earlier in the month. When I left you in 2017, it was the eldest's 21st birthday and he was due to arrive home from London late that night. So, we're picking the story up as we arrived at the railway station to meet him. The 21st birthday Poor boy, I don't think [...]

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Happy January – searching for a better way to manage 2018

By |2026-06-06T22:37:28+01:00January 5th, 2018|Categories: Family, Midlife, Project Happier, Relationships|Tags: , |

Hello - and a very Happy January to you all, I hope you've had a wonderful break. We had a lovely couple of weeks off despite being beset by illness and I'll tell you all about it in a 'midlife lately' post next week. In the meantime, I'm just popping up briefly. The boys don't go back to school until Monday and so I'm trying to be around while they're off. You see we were chatting over dinner one night [...]

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WeAreThirtyPlus Blogger of the Year Award – what it means to me

By |2026-06-06T22:37:32+01:00December 5th, 2017|Categories: Midlife, Style|

It has been such an exciting week winning the WeAreThirtyPlus Blogger of the Year Award and none of it would have happened without you so I just wanted to share the evening with you... and answer all of the questions that so many of you have had about what I decided to wear. About WeAreThirtyPlus You may remember I was surprised to find that I had been shortlisted a few weeks ago because I hadn't submitted an entry. I have [...]

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Side stripe trousers, a great solution… and a midlife wedding

By |2026-06-06T22:37:45+01:00October 6th, 2017|Categories: Health, Midlife, Project Happier, Relationships, Style|Tags: , , , , , , , , , , , , , |

I'm following on from my post about leather leggings with a focus on a different type of trouser. You see when I was down in London last week, I gambled on not having to stand up too much in my consultancy sessions. For once, I travelled light without 'street shoes' in my bag. It misfired. I was working with a larger team than expected and so I had to stand to enable everyone to hear (and see) me. We were [...]

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Midlife health and fitness…and those jeans!

By |2026-06-03T20:01:52+01:00September 29th, 2017|Categories: Health, Midlife, Project Happier, Work life balance|Tags: , , |

On Tuesday I mentioned that I've been challenged to get going with a new midlife health and fitness plan. I have committed to do it until January and today I'm going to tell you more about it. Before I do, I'm just going to cover the reasons why I'm doing it with a quick recap. I have hit an absolute exercise trough. Long term readers know about the car accident I had in December 2014. It wasn't a serious one [...]

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Midlifechic FAQ – the questions I am most frequently asked.

By |2026-05-20T14:39:57+01:00August 2nd, 2017|Categories: Midlife|Tags: , |

Boo! Yes I'm still on holiday but I thought I'd surprise you with a post. You see every week I get lots of emails from readers and I've noticed that they often include the same questions. So, I thought it would be helpful to put a Midlifechic FAQ in my 'About Me' section. This is it and I'm sending it out as a post just in case you're missing me - which you're probably not but I can hope! Midlifechic [...]

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What I’ve been wearing and the trials of student internships

By |2026-06-06T22:38:05+01:00July 21st, 2017|Categories: Family, Midlife, Style|Tags: , , , , , , , |

Hmm..what shall we talk about today? It's that finger drumming time of year so I thought I'd show you a few of the outfits I've been wearing recently. It will give us a chance to have a little chat about what's been going on too - I have a story that I've been meaning to tell you for a while about the trials of student internships. A school mum outfit Some of you may have seen this on Instagram. I [...]

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A science based solution for thinning midlife hair

By |2026-06-07T09:51:39+01:00July 18th, 2017|Categories: Hair & Beauty, Health, Midlife|Tags: , , , |

As we wait for the sales to finish and the new season stock to arrive, I'm covering some new topics. Back in January, we were discussing midlife symptoms - both physical and emotional and since then, I've been keeping an eye open for solutions to some of the problems that were raised. The results of the survey that we did showed that 27% of Midlifechic readers are having problems with thinning midlife hair. It isn't something that I have experienced [...]

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Hope sale – and revisiting my past

By |2026-06-07T09:46:11+01:00July 7th, 2017|Categories: Family, Midlife, Relationships, Sale, Style|Tags: , , , , , , , , , |

I have a late addition to the summer sales for you. Hope will be opening their sale tomorrow (Saturday 8th July) and I have a VIP preview which means you can go onto the site and snap up the bargains before everyone else. In preparation for the new stock arriving, they are having a huge clearout from past seasons and a lot of items are 70% off. It's a great opportunity to buy something of high quality at an amazing price. Here [...]

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How it feels to reach your 50th birthday

By |2026-06-03T19:46:34+01:00May 19th, 2017|Categories: Midlife, Project Happier|Tags: , |

So my friends, today's the day. I have achieved my half century. Everyone I've spoken to over the last couple of weeks has been asking me one question - how are you feeling about it? So I thought I'd try to articulate exactly how it feels to reach your 50th birthday. Prepare for one of those long streams of consciousness - it's been a while. You may need to make a cup of tea before you sit down with this [...]

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Twelve things for Tuesday – and Mother’s Day weekend

By |2026-06-06T22:38:29+01:00March 28th, 2017|Categories: Family, Midlife, Project Happier, Style|Tags: , , , , , , , , , , , |

Happy Tuesday everyone. It looks as though I will be spending a disproportionate amount of time driving this week as I have meetings that range from the Scottish Border right down to the Midlands. So I am putting together a quick post with a few of the things that I have spotted recently that I think you'll like and I'm finishing off with a round up of Mother's Day weekend. Easter This is probably the last stretch of time that we [...]

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Can you cure a lifelong phobia?

By |2026-06-03T20:02:49+01:00March 21st, 2017|Categories: Health, Midlife, Project Happier, Sale|Tags: , , , |

As you can see, I'm talking about something completely different today. A little while ago I mentioned that I have been having some treatment for a phobia and that I would discuss it when it was completed. Well today's the day. So, let me tell you more about it. My phobia is 'ornophobia' or a fear of birds. It not only covers the idea of them flapping around me or even being in my path when I walk through a [...]

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Midlife loneliness – a follow up

By |2026-06-03T21:24:41+01:00March 3rd, 2017|Categories: Midlife, Project Happier, Style|Tags: , , , , , , , , |

Wow that was quite a response to the last post on midlife loneliness! As I said at the outset, when I receive a cluster of emails on a particular topic, it suggests that something is going on at a wider level. I knew I could count on you to rally around Anna but what I didn't anticipate was the wonderful outpouring of empathy. I'm not going to write a long post today, partly because a power cut has wiped five hours off my [...]

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Loneliness and the midlife woman – making new friends

By |2017-02-27T16:08:04+00:00February 27th, 2017|Categories: Midlife, Project Happier|Tags: , |

Since Christmas, I've had a few emails from readers about loneliness. When I get a number of emails on a particular topic I take it seriously because I know that for each woman that speaks out, there will be others in the same situation. There is one reader that I've been talking to who I am especially worried about. I have helped her as much as I can and she has asked me to raise loneliness as a topic on Midlifechic to [...]

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Spotlight on Baukjen… and midlife love

By |2026-06-06T22:38:44+01:00February 14th, 2017|Categories: Midlife, Product review, Project Happier, Retail Review, Style, Travel|Tags: , , , , , , , , , , , , , |

I am very pleased to bring you the first of the spotlight posts. It's a big thank you to Baukjen for being the first brand to come on board as part of this series and I'm particularly pleased to be working with someone that I haven't featured before. I have only one Baukjen piece in my wardrobe and it is a jumpsuit that I bought in a hurry after seeing it featured in a magazine last year. For some reason [...]

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Midlifechic’s 3rd birthday – what next?

By |2026-05-20T14:16:19+01:00February 7th, 2017|Categories: Midlife|Tags: , |

Last Saturday was Midlifechic's 3rd birthday. I'm afraid there are no photos of celebrations this year because I had some emergency dental surgery on Friday afternoon which means I've been feeling sorry for myself, nursing a very sore mouth and a cheek like a chipmunk. Nevertheless 3 years feels like a milestone. Midlifechic began as a short term project when I was going through a period of transition. My youngest son was preparing to leave primary school and the eldest had his eyes fixed [...]

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What I’ve been wearing… and thinking about midlife

By |2026-06-03T21:28:44+01:00January 30th, 2017|Categories: Midlife, Style|Tags: , , , , , |

Boo! I'm surprising you with a Monday post because after my two days in London everything feels out of sync - plus I have something special to bring you on Thursday. So today I'm going to start with some rather random recent outfit shots and then move on to the thoughts I had when I read your midlife comments as they came in whilst I was on the train. What I've been wearing Now, this was over a week ago on [...]

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Physical symptoms of Midlife – survey results

By |2017-03-18T22:33:24+00:00January 25th, 2017|Categories: Health, Midlife, Surveys|Tags: , , , |

So here they are - the results! Over 2000 of you took part in the Physical symptoms of Midlife survey so we have some really interesting and relevant information here. As somebody who hates maths, I am always surprised by how much I love data. I suppose because of my marketing background I have learned how to delve into it and interpret it. Every so often the numbers will tell you that something you had always assumed to be true is [...]

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The symptoms of midlife – a survey

By |2017-03-18T22:27:42+00:00January 17th, 2017|Categories: Health, Midlife, Surveys|Tags: , , |

I have been overwhelmed by your enthusiastic and very thought provoking responses to my Midlife in the twenty-tens post. It seems as though I have hit upon something that we all want to discuss in more depth. As you know, the last post focused on the cognitive side of midlife, our changing mindset. As promised, I am now moving on to the chronological aspect or rather the physical symptoms of midlife that most people say they are experiencing. One approach would be [...]

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What is midlife in the twenty-tens?

By |2026-05-20T14:39:59+01:00January 11th, 2017|Categories: Midlife, Project Happier|Tags: , , |

So, here we, are in the retail hiatus of January when there is very little in the shops worth looking at. That means it's time for us to get into some of the deeper issues you've been asking me to cover - such as what is midlife in the twenty-tens (as this decade is now being called) and how can we age well? It's going to be one of those long posts when you may need a whole pot of tea rather than [...]

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Why I Walked Away From My Midlife Career

By |2026-06-07T09:50:47+01:00March 11th, 2016|Categories: Family, Midlife, Project Happier, Work life balance|Tags: , , , , |

Given that this is primarily a style blog, I was amazed by the interest and debate that my work life balance posts provoked. There are obviously so many of us in one of two positions - struggling to maintain a career and the needs of a family or struggling to find our sense of purpose as an educated stay at home mum. I've been really touched by the many stories that you've shared with me either privately or publicly over [...]

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A tough midlife career decision – and a stealthy M&S discount

By |2026-06-06T21:47:19+01:00February 21st, 2016|Categories: Family, Midlife, Style, Travel|Tags: , , , , , |

I'm very late blogging this week (again) but I have news on my work life balance and a tough midlife career decision that I can finally share with you. One Sunday night a few weeks ago, I was sitting at the dinner table with my head in my hands dreading the madness of the week to come, feeling that I was living in a very small but very fast hamster wheel. Mr MC looked across at me and asked me what [...]

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A real midlife fairytale #ItsOnUs

By |2026-06-06T21:48:44+01:00February 10th, 2015|Categories: Midlife, Project Happier, Relationships|Tags: , , , , , , , , , |

It's a happy day in our house today - it's our wedding anniversary. I have more reason to celebrate than most because my life now is my very own happy ending. As with all good fairytales though, I had to go through a struggle to reach it... ...Shall I tell you the story? Are You sitting comfortably? Then I'll begin... Once upon a time there was a girl who left university with her whole life ahead of her. Even though [...]

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